This belief doesn’t sound dramatic when it shows up in your mind.
It sounds normal. Familiar. Safe, even. But underneath, it shapes how you show up in relationships, careers, parenting — and how much self-worth you’re allowed to feel.


What It Sounds Like Internally:

  • “I’m not doing enough.”
  • “They probably regret choosing me.”
  • “If I mess this up, everyone will know I’m not actually qualified.”

Where It Shows Up:

  • Overfunctioning in high-pressure environments
  • Perfectionism that never feels finished
  • Avoiding vulnerability, asking for help, or taking up space
  • Feeling like success is accidental — or temporary

What It Can Lead To:

Unchecked, this belief often evolves into:


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What Therapy Targets:

We don’t “correct” this belief. We help your nervous system stop flagging success, praise, and stillness as threats.
Through Pattern Reconditioning, we remap your response to worth — from fear and avoidance, to confidence and calm.

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