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emotional control loop

“I Am Not in Control” belief tile from the Anger & Reactivity collection, highlighting fear-driven control patterns and reactive frustration.
Limiting Belief Library

“I Am Not in Control”(Anger) — A Core Limiting Belief

ByByShiftGritMay 19, 2025
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