ShiftGrit Psychology & Counselling
ShiftGrit Psychology & Counselling
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      • Post-Traumatic Stress Isn’t Just a Memory—It’s a Pattern
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        • Abhishek Bardoloi
        • Andrea McTague
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        • Alberto Medeiros
        • Baldwin Asala
        • Claudius Dada
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        • Jenae White
        • Jessica van Mill
        • Jia Baldueza
        • Nicole Krick-Ralston
        • Priya Virk
        • Stephanie Stevens
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        • Patience Owan
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        • Yvonne Valdes
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        • Lisa Wolanski
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      • Calgary Anxiety Therapy That Goes Deeper Than Coping Tools
      • When It’s Not Just Anxiety — It’s a Pattern
      • Imposter Syndrome: You’re “Not Good Enough”—But You’re Also Doing Just Fine
      • Anger Therapy That Rewires the Pattern — Not Just the Outburst
      • What Emotional Dysregulation Actually Is — And Why It’s Not About Overreacting
      • ADHD, Identity, and the Hidden Loops Behind Your Struggles
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    • 🎙️ The Shift Show Podcast
      • 035: Scroll, Click, Repeat: Escaping the Internet Addiction Trap
      • 034: Rewiring Trauma: How to Break Free from Limiting Beliefs
      • Parenting Little Ones: The Struggles, The Strategies & The Science
      • Beyond the Call: Navigating Trauma and Transition for Veterans and First Responders
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i am being used

“I Am Being Used” belief tile from ShiftGrit’s Anger & Reactivity set, symbolizing emotional resentment and boundary rupture.
Limiting Belief Library

“I Am Being Used”(Anger) — A Core Limiting Belief

ByByShiftGritMay 19, 2025
Periodic-style belief tile labeled “Lb” with the phrase “I Am Being Used” — part of the ShiftGrit Core Belief Series.
Limiting Belief Library

“I Am Being Used” — A Core Limiting Belief

ByByShiftGritMay 19, 2025
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