ShiftGrit Psychology & Counselling
ShiftGrit Psychology & Counselling
  • Services
    • Individual Counselling
    • Couples Counselling
    • Online Counselling
    • Psychological Assessments
    • Child Psychology
    • LGBTQ2+ Counselling
    • Clinical Concerns
      • Anxiety Treatment Using Shifts Unique Approach
      • Depression Treatment Using Shift’s Program
      • We often get asked if we treat ADHD…
      • OCD Treatment That Goes Beyond Compulsions
      • Obsessive Compulsive Personality Disorder
      • Trauma Therapy That Goes Deeper Than Coping
      • Post-Traumatic Stress Isn’t Just a Memory—It’s a Pattern
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    • Life Optimizations
      • Anger Therapy That Gets to the Pattern — Not Just the Outburst
      • Assertiveness Therapy That Builds Confidence From the Inside Out
      • Burnout Therapy That Rebuilds You From the Inside Out
      • Parenting Therapy That Starts With You — Not Your Child
      • Boundary Therapy for People Who Can’t Stop Saying Yes
      • Sex Therapy That Goes Beneath the Surface
      • Work-Life Balance Therapy That Breaks the “Never Enough” Pattern
  • Therapists
    • Alberta
      • Registered Psychologist
        • Abhishek Bardoloi
        • Andrea McTague
        • Gurjeet Bara
        • Sharilyn Theriault
      • Registered Provisional Psychologist
        • Alberto Medeiros
        • Baldwin Asala
        • Claire Goddard
        • Claudius Dada
        • Jaskiran Sidhu
        • Jenae White
        • Jia Baldueza
        • Nicole Krick-Ralston
        • Priya Virk
        • Stephanie Stevens
        • Susanne Loewen
      • Registered Social Worker
        • Esther Olatunji
        • Farhat Mohammadi
        • Geneviève Malena
        • Gurneet Kandola
        • Patience Owan
      • Counsellor
        • Niloy Reza
      • Mental Health Therapist
        • Yvonne Valdes
      • Intern Therapists
    • British Columbia
  • Identity-Level Therapy
    • ShiftGrit Core Method ™
      • Overview
      • Identity Patterns Therapy
      • Pattern Theory
      • Pattern Reconditioning
      • Integrated Therapy Modalities
    • Pattern Library
      • Schema Domain Patterns
      • Core Lifetrap Patterns
      • Core Belief Patterns
      • Limiting Belief Patterns
    • Glossary & Concept Definitions
      • Limiting Beliefs
      • Walnut Brain
      • Pressure Cooker
      • Opt-Out Behaviour
      • Reconditioning Protocol
      • Identity Reconditioning
      • Belief Unpairing
    • Getting Started
      • Get Started
      • FAQ
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      • About ShiftGrit
      • Founder’s Story
  • Areas We Serve
    • Calgary
      • Therapists in Calgary
      • Counselling Calgary
      • Assessments
        • ADHD Assessments
        • Psychoeducational Assessments
        • Behavioural Assessment
      • Anxiety Therapy
      • Depression Treatment
      • Trauma Therapy
      • PTSD Therapy
      • OCD Therapy
      • Self-Esteem Therapy
      • Imposter Syndrome Therapy
      • Binge Eating Disorder Treatment
      • Burnout Counselling
      • Addiction Counselling
      • Self Harm Therapy
      • Sports Psychology
      • Borderline Personality Disorder Treatment
      • ADHD Therapy
      • Infertility Therapy
      • Technology Addiction
      • Male Psychologist
    • Edmonton
      • Therapists in Edmonton
      • Counselling Edmonton
      • South Edmonton
      • Anxiety Therapy
      • Depression Therapy
      • PTSD Therapy
      • OCD Therapy
      • Self-Esteem Therapy
      • Binge Eating Disorder Treatment
      • Burnout Counselling
      • Addiction Counselling
      • Self Harm Therapy
      • Borderline Personality Disorder Treatment
      • ADHD Therapy
    • Vancouver
      • Anxiety Therapy
      • Depression Therapy
      • PTSD Therapy
      • OCD Therapy
      • Self-Esteem Therapy
      • Binge Eating Disorder Treatment
      • Burnout Counselling
      • Addiction Counselling
      • Self Harm Therapy
      • Borderline Personality Disorder Treatment
    • Kelowna
    • Victoria
  • Resources
    • 🔹 Blog & Insights
      • Therapy That Builds—Not Just Repairs
      • Why You Don’t Need to Be Broken to Grow
      • Calgary Anxiety Therapy That Goes Deeper Than Coping Tools
      • When It’s Not Just Anxiety — It’s a Pattern
      • Imposter Syndrome: You’re “Not Good Enough”—But You’re Also Doing Just Fine
      • What Emotional Dysregulation Actually Is — And Why It’s Not About Overreacting
      • 📍View All Blog Posts
    • 🎙️ The Shift Show Podcast
      • 035: Scroll, Click, Repeat: Escaping the Internet Addiction Trap
      • 034: Rewiring Trauma: How to Break Free from Limiting Beliefs
      • Parenting Little Ones: The Struggles, The Strategies & The Science
      • Beyond the Call: Navigating Trauma and Transition for Veterans and First Responders
      • Grit, Growth, and Balance: The High Performer’s Guide to Mental Toughness
      • 📍Podcast Home
    • 🎞️ Videos & SlideShares
      • What Keeps You Stuck — And How We Break the Pattern
      • ShiftGrit Glossary — Identity-Level Therapy Terms
      • 📍 Video Library
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Self Esteem

Low self-esteem is often a symptom of identity-level beliefs. These articles explore how internal value systems form and how therapy can help restore self-trust and self-worth.

Eating Disorders
Health, Fitness & Weight LossSelf Esteem

Weight Loss Therapy That Targets the Pattern — Not the Willpower

ByByShiftGritMar 14, 2023
A young adult walks a red string tightrope above a shadowy courtroom, holding a smiling mask while showing fear—visualizing the perfectionism and fear of mistakes.
PerfectionismADHD Therapy

Why Mistakes Feel Dangerous: The Identity Pattern Behind Perfectionism

ByByShiftGritMay 5, 2025
Person caught between two mirrored identities—perfectionism and ADHD—pulling them in opposite directions. Surreal visual of internal conflict and emotional dysregulation.
PerfectionismADHD Therapy

Perfectionism and ADHD: The Internal Tug-of-War

ByByShiftGritMay 5, 2025
Cozy Up to Winter and Say Goodbye to Seasonal Affective Disorder
The HiveFamily, Relationships & Sex

Cozy Up to Winter and Say Goodbye to Seasonal Affective Disorder

ByByShiftGritJan 27, 2022
The Struggle With Social Anxiety
Mental Health & StigmaSelf Esteem

The Struggle With Social Anxiety

ByByShiftGritMar 14, 2023
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Patterns

  • Identity-Level Therapy38
  • Glossary12
  • Limiting Belief Library77
  • Pattern Reconditioning7
  • Executive Dysfunction6
  • Perfectionism7
  • Anger & Reactivity1
  • Emotional Dysregulation15

Gallery

Illustration of a person measuring the first step of a staircase made of task labels like “Plan,” “Research,” and “Revise,” symbolizing the perfectionism–procrastination loop.
Perspective ‘Shift’
5 Ways to Help Someone with Panic Attack
Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder,
How to Help Someone With Depression: A Comprehensive Guide to Providing Support
Flat-style illustration of a hand scrolling a digital device, representing dopamine-driven distraction patterns in ShiftGrit’s Calgary & Edmonton therapy blog.
A conceptual illustration of a high-functioning woman burdened by mental and emotional overload, symbolizing the ADHD–burnout loop common in perfectionist adults.
Minimalist black-and-white line drawing of a faceless figure holding a theatrical mask and a cracked mirror — a metaphor for the hidden identity loops behind shame-driven self-sabotage.
The Shift Approach to OCPD Treatment

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