ShiftGrit Psychology & Counselling
ShiftGrit Psychology & Counselling
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    • 🔹 Blog & Insights
      • Therapy That Builds—Not Just Repairs
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      • When It’s Not Just Anxiety — It’s a Pattern
      • Imposter Syndrome: You’re “Not Good Enough”—But You’re Also Doing Just Fine
      • What Emotional Dysregulation Actually Is — And Why It’s Not About Overreacting
      • 📍View All Blog Posts
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Self Esteem

Low self-esteem is often a symptom of identity-level beliefs. These articles explore how internal value systems form and how therapy can help restore self-trust and self-worth.

Eating Disorders
Health, Fitness & Weight LossSelf Esteem

Weight Loss Therapy That Targets the Pattern — Not the Willpower

ByByShiftGritMar 14, 2023
A young adult walks a red string tightrope above a shadowy courtroom, holding a smiling mask while showing fear—visualizing the perfectionism and fear of mistakes.
PerfectionismADHD Therapy

Why Mistakes Feel Dangerous: The Identity Pattern Behind Perfectionism

ByByShiftGritMay 5, 2025
Person caught between two mirrored identities—perfectionism and ADHD—pulling them in opposite directions. Surreal visual of internal conflict and emotional dysregulation.
PerfectionismADHD Therapy

Perfectionism and ADHD: The Internal Tug-of-War

ByByShiftGritMay 5, 2025
Cozy Up to Winter and Say Goodbye to Seasonal Affective Disorder
The HiveFamily, Relationships & Sex

Cozy Up to Winter and Say Goodbye to Seasonal Affective Disorder

ByByShiftGritJan 27, 2022
The Struggle With Social Anxiety
Mental Health & StigmaSelf Esteem

The Struggle With Social Anxiety

ByByShiftGritMar 14, 2023
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Patterns

  • Identity-Level Therapy41
  • Glossary12
  • Limiting Belief Library77
  • Pattern Reconditioning7
  • Executive Dysfunction6
  • Perfectionism7
  • Anger & Reactivity1
  • Emotional Dysregulation15

Gallery

Illustration of a man with a pressure gauge on his chest, sitting blankly in a dark room—symbolizing emotional shutdown and burnout in men.
Identifying The Types of ADHD
Black-and-white line drawing of a woman with a calm expression and a transparent distressed version of herself behind, with a thought bubble showing a checklist, heart, and clock — symbolizing the hidden emotional strain of ADHD in women.
Emotional reactivity illustrated as a ripple of fire erupting from a small spark, symbolizing anger triggered by deeper unresolved patterns.
trauma's impact on relationships
Obsession vs Compulsion – Understanding The Facets of OCD
Flat-style illustration of a hand scrolling a digital device, representing dopamine-driven distraction patterns in ShiftGrit’s Calgary & Edmonton therapy blog.
A young woman stands in emotional distress as her thoughts loop endlessly—symbolizing overthinking and identity-based burnout.
Female professional on stage wearing a smiling mask, hiding anxiety; perfectionism metaphor showing emotional pressure and identity conflict

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