Ostracism, Shaming, or Social Exclusion
A developmental context where a person experienced repeated rejection, shaming, or exclusion from peer groups, family systems, or communities. Belonging may have been withdrawn in response to difference, mistakes, or visibility, rather than repaired through connection. Over time, this can shape heightened sensitivity to social threat, avoidance or over-adaptation in groups, difficulty trusting acceptance, and an internal expectation of being pushed out or judged.
“I Am Shameful”
This belief convinces you that something about you is inherently bad or broken — not just that you’ve…
“I Hurt Everyone”
The belief “I Hurt Everyone” drives self-isolation, guilt, and a fear of closeness. It often forms when emotional…
“I Am A Loser”
The belief “I Am A Loser” often forms in environments where worth is measured by performance, outcomes, or…
“I Am Boring”
The belief “I Am Boring” creates a subtle but powerful social anxiety loop. It can lead to masking,…
“I Am Trash”
The belief “I Am Trash” traps a person in cycles of self-loathing, shame, and emotional shut-down. It distorts…
“I Am Unclean”
This belief is rooted in early shame-based experiences — where the body, instincts, or identity itself felt wrong…























