Find a Self-harming or suicidal behavior Therapist in Calgary
Learn about Self-harming or suicidal behavior therapyBrowse licensed clinicians for self-harming or suicidal behavior in Calgary. Sessions available online or in-person.
Finding self-harming or suicidal behavior support in Calgary doesn’t have to feel like guesswork.
On this page you’ll see licensed clinicians available for in-person or virtual sessions in Calgary.
We outline the plan up front, teach the “why”, and keep sessions focused on specific changes that matter to you.
Why Your Mind Reacts Before You Can Think — and How We Rewire That
You have two minds that shape every moment: the one that thinks and the one that reacts. When something triggers old fear or shame, your reactive mind jumps in first — just like how you’d flinch at a spider before realizing it’s harmless. The ShiftGrit approach helps you retrain that automatic system so your reactions finally line up with what you know to be true — calm, confident, and in control.
Why clients feel confident starting here
- Safety and structure from the very first session
- Understanding without judgment
- Tools that create stability and self-trust
Live in Calgary? Connect with a Self-harming or suicidal behavior therapist in-person or online.
Licensed Alberta clinicians on MST (unless noted). Start with a clear plan, practical tools, and sessions focused on what matters to you.
Identity-Level Therapy for Self-harming or suicidal behavior in Calgary
Identity-Level Therapy targets the belief patterns and emotional loops driving automatic reactions—not just the surface symptoms. By working at the identity layer, clients shift how they interpret safety, regulate threat, and relate to themselves and others. The result: reconditioning at the root of shame, self-sabotage, reactivity, and overwhelm.
It’s organized around three pillars:


ShiftGrit Core Method™
Our structured framework for breaking outdated identity patterns.
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The Pattern Library
Real-world examples of loops like perfectionism, procrastination, and shutdown.
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The Glossary
Clear definitions that keep the language sharp and the process transparent.
Learn moreLimiting Beliefs Commonly Linked with Self-harming or suicidal behavior Therapy
These identity-level patterns frequently show up for clients seeking self-harming or suicidal behavior therapy. Explore the beliefs to learn the “why” and how therapy can help you recondition them.


“I Am a Burden” — A Core Limiting Belief
You don’t ask for help—even when you need it. The belief “I Am A Burden” forms in environments where your emotional needs were dismissed, punished, or framed as…
Explore this belief

“I Should Die” — A Core Limiting Belief
This isn’t about wanting life to end. It’s about believing your presence is the problem. Therapy can break that loop and rewire the belief that you shouldn’t be…
Explore this belief

“I Don’t Matter” — A Core Limiting Belief
You show up for everyone—but no one really sees you. The belief “I Don’t Matter” is what takes root when your needs, voice, or presence were chronically dismissed.…
Explore this beliefFrequently asked questions
What is self-harming or suicidal behaviour?
Self-harming and suicidal behaviours are often ways of trying to manage unbearable emotional pain or a sense of hopelessness. These actions aren’t attention-seeking — they’re signals that a person’s internal coping system is overwhelmed. At ShiftGrit, we help clients understand why these feelings and behaviours occur, identify the underlying emotional and cognitive patterns, and develop safer, healthier ways to regulate distress.
How does ShiftGrit’s approach help people experiencing suicidal thoughts or self-harm?
Our therapy process focuses on safety, structure, and education. Using Pattern Theory™, we explore how deep emotional loops — like “I’m a burden,” “I’ll never get better,” or “I can’t cope” — shape these reactions. Through Reconditioning, we help retrain the brain’s threat response system, so emotions can be experienced and processed without turning into crisis states. Each session builds insight, stability, and hope at a pace that feels manageable and safe.
Can therapy help if I feel too hopeless or scared to reach out?
Yes. It’s common to feel uncertain about starting therapy — especially when things feel heavy or unfixable. We meet you where you are, focusing first on safety and relief rather than deep processing. You’ll learn tools to regulate overwhelming emotions and gain a clearer understanding of what’s happening inside. You don’t need to have everything figured out before reaching out — taking the first step is enough.
How do you keep therapy safe for clients with suicidal thoughts?
Safety is the foundation of our process. Every session includes a structured plan for emotional regulation and clear boundaries around crisis management. We work collaboratively to create a personalized safety plan and ensure that support systems are in place both inside and outside of sessions. Clients are never left to manage overwhelming emotions alone — structure and transparency guide every step.
Do you offer in-person and virtual therapy for self-harming or suicidal behaviour in Calgary?
Yes. We offer in-person therapy for self-harming or suicidal behaviour in Calgary and secure virtual sessions throughout Calgary. Both formats follow the same trauma-informed, structured model designed to prioritize safety, stability, and emotional regulation from the very first session.
You deserve more from Self-harming or suicidal behavior therapy.
Find the right fit in Calgary and make the most of the time and money you’re investing in yourself.
Find your therapistOur Calgary Clinic
ShiftGrit Psychology & Counselling
815 17 Ave SW #210, Calgary, AB T2T 0A1








