Parental Absence or Inconsistent Availability
A developmental environment where a primary caregiver was physically or emotionally unavailable in an unpredictable or inconsistent way. This may include frequent absences, emotional withdrawal, competing demands, or fluctuating responsiveness. Over time, the child may struggle to rely on others, feel uncertain about support, or stay in a heightened state of vigilance around connection—never quite knowing when care will be present or disappear.
“I Am Responsible”
When you believe you’re responsible for everyone, you don’t just lend a hand—you take on the full weight…
“I Am Unwanted”
The “I Am Unwanted” belief doesn’t just hurt — it wires the nervous system to expect rejection and…

























