Persistent Criticism

A developmental environment in which feedback is frequently corrective, evaluative, or focused on flaws rather than guidance or repair. When criticism is ongoing and not balanced with reassurance or emotional attunement, a child may internalize the sense that mistakes reflect personal deficiency rather than learning moments. Over time, this can shape heightened self-monitoring, shame responses, fear of failure, or an internalized critical voice that continues even in the absence of external judgment.

“I Am Mediocre”

Even when effort is high or outcomes are solid, this belief whispers that it’s not enough. “I Am…

“I Am Useless”

The belief I Am Useless convinces individuals that they bring no real value — not to others, not…

“I Am Defective”

“I Am Defective” is a deep-rooted core belief that can leave a person constantly scanning for signs that…

“I Am Boring”

The belief “I Am Boring” creates a subtle but powerful social anxiety loop. It can lead to masking,…

“I Am Unclean”

This belief is rooted in early shame-based experiences — where the body, instincts, or identity itself felt wrong…

“I Am Shameful”

This belief convinces you that something about you is inherently bad or broken — not just that you’ve…