Emotional Invalidation (Distinct from criticism)
A developmental environment where a person’s internal emotional experiences were dismissed, minimized, misunderstood, or treated as inappropriate, exaggerated, or inconvenient. Rather than being corrected or criticized for behaviour, emotions themselves may have been ignored, reframed, or denied (e.g., being told one “shouldn’t feel that way”). Over time, this can shape difficulty identifying or trusting one’s emotions, reliance on external cues to determine how one “should” feel, and a sense that internal experiences are unreliable or unacceptable.
“There Is Something Wrong With Me”
A belief that quietly erodes self-trust. “There is something wrong with me” drives hypervigilance, shame, and the constant…
“I Am Unbalanced”
“I never feel stable.” The belief I Am Unbalanced creates inner chaos — mentally, emotionally, or behaviourally. It…
“I Am Boring”
The belief “I Am Boring” creates a subtle but powerful social anxiety loop. It can lead to masking,…
“I Am Fragile”
This belief creates a constant fear of falling apart under stress. Even small challenges feel like too much.…
PTSD
PTSD isn’t just about the past—it’s a pattern your nervous system keeps repeating. At ShiftGrit, we target the…
Compulsive Sexual Behaviour & Pornography Use
Porn addiction, which is a subset of sex addiction, can refer to a range of behaviors that are…



























































































